WENDYFOREVER is my personal blog dedicated to my daughter, Wendy.   When I was 15 weeks pregnant, our daughter was diagnosed with Anencephaly, a rare neural tube defect and was stillborn last November.


I was told something no mother should ever hear, "Your baby is not compatible with life."


This blog reveals the nightmare I had to live through, the dreams I was forced to let go, and the hardships I have to overcome.  But, also, the grace that saved me, the love that held me, and the wisdom that grew me.

I aspire this blog to bring others hope, a helping hand, or an open ear.


I am not a pastor, doctor, nor a therapist, just a bereaved mother wanting to share my story - her story.  My Wendy.

December 5, 2019

  While scrolling through my Instagram feed I found this beautiful illustration stating, “You are worthy, even when you don’t feel like it.” That struck me like lightening, but also provided a sense of comfort. Since the loss of our daughter Wendy, my life seemed uncle...

March 15, 2019

This is a season of new life.  Spring is my favorite season of the year with freshly bloomed flowers spotting the green earth.  Bees and butterflies dance and flutter in the breeze.  I love the sound and smell of light showers falling from full clouds.  Near my town, t...

November 6, 2018

 After Wendy went home to heaven, the hole in my heart felt like it would never go away.  The pain would never go away.  I felt like I needed to do something to get rid of it, that I needed to be fixed.

I thought to myself, "If only I had another baby, I would...

August 8, 2018

When I lost my daughter one of my biggest fears was that she would be forgotten.  The thought paralyzed me.

So, I tried to think of every possible thing we could do to ensure that fear would never come true.  I made a point to incorporate our daughter in every...

August 1, 2018

That’s an order!

You may chuckle a little bit, but I mean it.  Give yourself grace.

When it comes to friends and family, especially your kids, husband or wife, we often try to provide the best for them.  Cooking this amazing recipe you just found on Tasty, switching to m...

July 30, 2018

My daughter was born still on November 12, 2017 at 12:17pm. She weighed 3 pounds and 10 ounces and was 14 inches long.  I carried her for 41 weeks and 4 days until she was induced into labor.

When I was 15 weeks pregnant our daughter was diagnosed with Anencep...

July 28, 2018

wendyforever is place to share my story.  Well, more accurately, my daughter's story.  I wanted to create a place where I can express myself as some sort of a therapy, while helping other mothers who might be going through tough times as well.

You see, I always wan...

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